Trust in the process and stay fit. ✌🏼
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Friday Flex: The Progress Never Stops
One thing I enjoy about bodybuilding is that progress is never really finished.
Every physique photo captures a specific moment in time, but behind that moment are thousands of workouts, meals, and decisions that nobody sees. Looking back at photos like this, I always remember the process more than the pose itself.
Keep showing up. The small efforts add up.
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Throwback Thursday: When Life Hands You Lemons
There’s an old saying about what to do when life hands you lemons.
Most people take it as a lesson about staying positive when things don’t go according to plan. Bodybuilding teaches something similar. Not every workout is perfect. Not every prep goes as expected. Not every goal happens on the timeline you originally imagined.
Over the years, I’ve learned that progress often comes from adapting rather than complaining. You work with what you have, make the best decisions you can, and keep moving forward.
And occasionally, you stop at the grocery store and end up becoming part of a very literal version of the saying. 🍋💪
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Truth Tuesday: Genetics Matter in Bodybuilding
One uncomfortable truth about bodybuilding is that genetics do matter.
Muscle shape, structure, bone structure, muscle insertions, metabolism, recovery ability, and even how someone responds to training can vary significantly from person to person. Two athletes can train equally hard for years and still end up with very different physiques.
That is simply reality in a physique-based sport.
I think problems begin when people move too far in either direction with this conversation.
Some people pretend genetics do not matter at all and act as if every physique is achievable for everyone with enough effort alone. Other people use genetics as an excuse to stop pushing themselves before they have even given consistent effort a real chance.
The truth is somewhere in the middle.
Good genetics can absolutely create advantages in bodybuilding. Certain athletes naturally have fuller muscle bellies, narrower waists, wider clavicles, or respond to training exceptionally well. At the highest levels of the sport, genetics become very obvious because everyone is already training hard and dieting seriously.
But discipline still matters tremendously.
Most people never come close to maximizing the physique they are personally capable of building because consistency is much harder than people expect over long periods of time. Sleep, nutrition, recovery, training quality, patience, and lifestyle all influence results heavily too.
I also think social media has distorted people’s perception of what “normal” progress looks like. Beginners compare themselves immediately to elite-level physiques without understanding how rare those genetics often are even within bodybuilding itself.
That comparison can become discouraging very quickly.
One thing I respect most in fitness is seeing someone maximize their own potential regardless of where they started genetically. Bodybuilding becomes much healthier mentally when the focus shifts toward improving your own physique instead of constantly wishing you had somebody else’s structure.
You cannot control your genetics.
You can control your consistency, your mindset, your discipline, and the effort you bring to the process over time.
That is still where most real progress comes from.
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Friday Flex: Late Nights at Torture Gym
There’s something different about training in Las Vegas.
Maybe it’s the energy of the city, maybe it’s the nonstop atmosphere, or maybe it’s just the fact that gyms like Torture Gym attract people who are there to work. No fancy distractions. No pretending. Just heavy training, loud music, and people chasing improvement.
I took this photo during one of those late-night sessions where the gym almost disappears around you for a while and everything narrows down to the workout itself. Those are still some of my favorite moments in bodybuilding. Just focusing on the physique, checking progress, and trying to bring up weak points one piece at a time.
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Throwback Thursday: Prioritizing Health and Wellness
A reminder that taking care of your health is one of the best investments you can make. From routine check-ups to staying proactive about wellness, every step counts toward a stronger future.
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Why Gelato Will Always Be My Favorite Dessert
People sometimes assume bodybuilders completely stop enjoying food.
During contest prep, there are definitely periods where meals become extremely repetitive and structured. You eat for performance, recovery, conditioning, and routine more than enjoyment. That discipline is part of the process.
But outside of prep, I still appreciate good food very much, and one thing I will probably always love is gelato.
Part of it is cultural. Growing up in Italy, gelato is connected to everyday life and memories in a way that feels very normal there. Summer evenings, walking through the city, sitting outside with friends or family after dinner — gelato is part of those moments.
I also think good gelato reflects something I appreciate about Italian culture in general. It is usually simple, but done very well. A few quality ingredients, good texture, good flavor, nothing excessive.
And after long periods of strict dieting, even something small like a scoop (or three, haha) of gelato can feel surprisingly satisfying. Not only because of the taste, but because it reminds you that bodybuilding should still leave room to enjoy life too.
That balance matters to me.
Fitness has given me structure, discipline, and purpose, but I never wanted to become someone who could no longer appreciate simple experiences outside the gym. Sitting somewhere in Italy (or even New York City!) with good weather and good gelato still feels like one of the easiest ways to slow down and enjoy the moment for a little while.
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Truth Tuesday: Some Exercises Are Not Worth the Risk for Most People
One exercise I personally think many newer lifters should be very cautious with is the behind-the-neck shoulder press.
Years ago, it was much more common in bodybuilding routines, and some people still swear by it. But over time, I’ve seen too many lifters force themselves into positions their shoulders simply are not built to handle safely.
The problem is that the exercise demands a combination of shoulder mobility, stability, posture, and control that many people honestly do not have, especially beginners sitting at desks all day with tight shoulders and poor thoracic mobility already.
Once heavy weight gets involved, the position can place a lot of stress on the shoulders and rotator cuff very quickly.
I also think many people perform the movement incorrectly without realizing it. They force the bar too low, arch excessively, lose shoulder positioning, and turn the exercise into something much riskier than it needs to be.
For me, the bigger question is always this: What are you gaining from the exercise that cannot be achieved more safely another way?
There are already many excellent shoulder exercises available. Dumbbell presses, machine presses, lateral raises, cable work, and more controlled pressing variations can build impressive shoulders without putting the joints into awkward positions repeatedly.
That does not mean nobody should ever do behind-the-neck presses. Some experienced lifters with exceptional mobility and years of training may tolerate them perfectly fine.
But I think newer lifters often assume an exercise must be good simply because they saw advanced bodybuilders doing it online somewhere.
Experience changes exercise selection a lot.
As people train longer, they usually stop chasing exercises that only look hardcore and start paying much more attention to longevity, recovery, joint health, and staying able to train consistently for years without unnecessary injuries.
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Motivation Monday: Staying Consistent
Some days in the gym feel amazing. Most don’t.
Most workouts are just me showing up, putting my headphones in, and getting the work done whether I feel like it or not. That’s the reality of bodybuilding after enough years. Nobody sees the hundreds of regular training sessions behind the photos and stage shots. They just see the result afterward.
I’ve learned that consistency beats excitement every time. The days where you least feel like training are usually the days that test whether you’re serious about your goals or just interested in them when it’s convenient.
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Sculpting Sunday: Three Bicep Exercises I Always Come Back To
People love searching for secret arm exercises, but after enough years in bodybuilding, I’ve realized bicep growth usually comes more from consistency, execution, and proper tension than constantly changing movements every week.
There are a few exercises I continue returning to because they consistently work when performed correctly.
The standing dumbbell curl is still one of the best overall bicep exercises in my opinion. It’s simple, but small details change the effectiveness completely. I try to avoid swinging the weight excessively and focus on controlling the negative portion instead of rushing through repetitions. Letting the arm fully extend at the bottom while keeping tension on the bicep makes a huge difference compared to doing half-reps with momentum. You can do these with either dumbbells or a barbell, and for variation, you can use an underhand grip or an overhand grip.
Incline dumbbell curls are another exercise I think many people underestimate.
The stretched position during the movement creates a very different feeling compared to standard curls. Sitting back on an incline bench forces the biceps to work from a deeper stretch, and that usually creates excellent tension when the movement is controlled properly. The mistake many people make is going too heavy and turning the exercise into shoulder movement instead of isolating the biceps themselves.
I also still like preacher curls, especially for strict contraction work.
Preacher curls remove a lot of momentum and force the biceps to do the work directly. They can feel humbling very quickly because weights that seem easy during standing curls suddenly feel much heavier once cheating is removed from the movement.
One thing I’ve learned with arm training is that chasing heavier weight endlessly often hurts progress more than it helps. Biceps respond very well to controlled execution, full range of motion, and consistent tension.
I also think patience is important with arms specifically because people tend to expect dramatic changes very quickly. In reality, arm development usually takes much longer than newer lifters expect, especially once beginner progress slows down.
Over time, I’ve found that simple exercises performed well repeatedly almost always outperform constantly searching for flashy “secret” movements online.
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Speak Up Saturday: What’s Your Question?
One of the things I’ve always enjoyed about this blog is the interaction with readers. Over the years, I’ve received questions about bodybuilding, training, nutrition, supplementation, motivation, career experiences, personal interests, and plenty of topics that don’t fit neatly into any category.
That’s the idea behind Ask Alessandro.
From time to time, I put together an Ask Alessandro feature where I answer questions submitted by readers. Some are fitness-related. Some are personal. Some are completely unexpected. The best ones are often the questions that spark interesting discussions or offer insights that others may find valuable as well.
If you’ve ever wondered how I approach a particular aspect of training, what I think about a current trend in fitness, how I balance different priorities, or simply wanted my perspective on something, this is your opportunity to ask.
Questions can be submitted at any time through this website and will be considered for future editions of Ask Alessandro. While I can’t guarantee that every question will be featured, I do read the submissions and frequently draw from them when putting together new Q&A posts.
So whether your question is about building muscle, staying motivated, lessons learned through the years, favorite books, hobbies, business, travel, or something entirely different, I’d love to hear it.
After all, if you’re thinking about it, there’s a good chance someone else is too.
Speak up and submit your question today. It may be featured in a future Ask Alessandro. You may submit questions anonymously if you’d like.
You can also view my first two Volumes of Ask Alessandro. In my first edition, I answered some of the questions I receive the most often: how tall am I? How much do I weigh? How did I get started in bodybuilding? And much more.
And in the second edition, I answered questions about my role models, what people misunderstand about the life of a bodybuilder, how I choose to travel, and many other reader questions.
If you missed them, be sure to check them out!
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Friday Flex: Looking Back at the Process
Back detail from 2024.
When I look at photos like this, I don’t just see the physique. I remember the routine behind it — the training sessions, the structured days, the meals, the travel, the exhaustion, and the consistency required to keep showing up over and over again.
At the time, most of it just felt normal. Looking back now, I can see how much those ordinary days added up.
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Throwback Thursday: Peak Week Memories
Contest prep has a way of making time blur together. By peak week, everything becomes extremely structured — training, meals, water, sleep, posing, recovery.
Photos like this from 2024 always take me back to that mindset. Focused, tired, excited, and completely locked into the goal after months of preparation.
A lot of people only see the few minutes on stage. The real experience is everything that happens before it — including standing half awake in a spray tan tent while someone coats you like a piece of expensive furniture.
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When the Mirror Gets Too Loud
Bodybuilding is, by definition, an aesthetic pursuit.
The name itself says it clearly. We are building the body. Shaping it. Refining it. Improving it through years of training, nutrition, recovery, discipline, and repetition. Physique matters in this world because the physique is the work itself.
So yes — bodybuilders pay attention to appearance. More than most people.
We notice small changes. A sharper waistline. Fuller shoulders. Slightly better conditioning. A softer look after a few uncontrolled meals. We analyze progress photos, lighting, posing, symmetry, and detail. Over time, it becomes second nature.
There is nothing strange about that.
But there is also a line that can quietly become blurred.
At some point, the mirror can stop being a tool and start becoming a judge.
That is where things become dangerous.
The truth is that bodybuilding gives people far more than aesthetics alone. The physical transformation may be what draws most people into the lifestyle initially, but if they stay long enough, they usually discover something deeper underneath it.
Structure, discipline, patience.
Self-respect, consistency.
The gym teaches people how to keep promises to themselves. It teaches restraint, emotional control, and long-term thinking. It creates routine during chaotic periods of life. It gives many people confidence they never had before. For some, it becomes therapy. For others, stability.
Those things matter far more than whether your abs are visible every hour of every day.
The problem is that modern bodybuilding culture — especially online — can make it easy to forget this. Social media constantly pushes comparison. Perfect lighting. Perfect pumps. Perfect angles. Perfect conditioning maintained for a single photo taken at a specific moment under very controlled circumstances.
If you are not careful, you can slowly begin attaching your entire sense of self-worth to how you look on any given day.
That mindset becomes exhausting.
Even worse, it becomes impossible to satisfy, because physiques are never static. The body changes constantly. Water fluctuates. Conditioning fluctuates. Fullness fluctuates. Energy fluctuates. No athlete looks stage-ready year-round, no matter what social media tries to sell.
And yet many bodybuilders still live mentally trapped inside constant self-analysis: Too small. Too flat. Too soft. Not lean enough. Not full enough.
Not enough.
The irony is that this obsession can actually pull someone further away from the very lifestyle they claim to love. Training becomes anxiety instead of growth. Meals become stress instead of fuel. Progress becomes invisible because the athlete can only focus on flaws.
I understand this mentality because I live inside the same world.
Every serious bodybuilder cares about appearance. Pretending otherwise would be dishonest. We work extremely hard to refine our physiques, and naturally we want to see the result of that effort reflected back at us.
But bodybuilding works best when aesthetics remain part of the lifestyle — not the entire meaning of it.
The healthiest athletes are usually the ones who understand that their physique is something they pursue, not something that defines their value as a person.
Because eventually, the stage lights turn off.
The show ends, the photos are posted, and life continues.
And what remains underneath all of it is the real reason this lifestyle matters: the discipline it built inside you long before the physique ever arrived.
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Truth Tuesday: The Biggest Mistake in Fat Loss (and Why it Always Backfires)
The biggest mistake I see people make when they start their physical transformation is this: they say, “I’ll follow a super strict diet for two or three months, lose weight… and then that’s it.”
It doesn’t work. Ever.If you follow an extreme method that’s hard to sustain and you reach your goal… what do you think happens when you stop that diet?
Everything falls apart.
A truly solid program is meant to build habits you can carry with you for life.
Because when you reach your goal and think, “Okay, now I’ll maintain, now I’ll enjoy food a bit”… you’re like a sponge. You regain weight at an insane speed.
And it’s devastating: you put in a huge amount of effort to lose 5, 10, 15 pounds… and within a few weeks, it feels like you’ve gained almost all of it back.
When you truly understand that staying in shape requires ongoing effort, and that the method you use to reach your goal is more or less the same one you’ll need to maintain it… then you ask yourself: “Can I really do this for the rest of my life?”
And that’s when you realize that extremes aren’t the way.
